Not Yo Average Aunties Podcast

The BIGGEST Reason 90% of Relationships FAIL……

We explore the intersection of ego, leadership, and submission in relationships.
How power dynamics shift between partners and friends, and what role do societal expectations play?
The Aunties dig into their own experiences, discussing the balance of trust, communication, and accountability in modern partnerships.
We also tackle how past emotional triggers can shape current interactions. This conversation challenges old stereotypes and invites you to rethink the balance of power in your own relationships.

STOP Letting Fake Friends Drain Your Energy!

Ever had a friendship that felt like a “breakup”? In this episode, the Aunties' dive into the hidden heartache of friendship dynamics, sharing personal stories of betrayal and the hard truth about fake friends. While friendships are meant to be uplifting, sometimes they bring more harm than good—and that’s where the conversation begins. The Aunties' discuss how friendships mirror romantic relationships, requiring the same level of communication, trust, and effort. They break down the different types of connections we form—social, emotional, and functional—and how these friendships overlap or fall apart. Drawing from their own experiences, they talk about the importance of protecting your energy and setting boundaries with people who don’t have your best interests at heart. With thought-provoking insights into how childhood shapes our approach to relationships, this episode is an honest look at the complexity of human connections.

We're talking Hulu's Reasonable Doubt: Messy Marriages, Michael Ealy’s Magic, & Diddy’s Drama

Get ready for a wild ride as the Aunties dig into the relationship chaos of Reasonable Doubt on Hulu! From cheating scandals to jaw-dropping forgiveness, we’re breaking down the emotional rollercoaster & unconventional relationship between Jax and Louis.
Michael Ealy steals the spotlight with his killer acting, and we can’t stop talking about it.
Oh, and Diddy..... Yeah, the aunties, talk about how he ruined his legacy.....If you love a mix of on-screen drama and real-life gossip, this episode is your front-row seat to it all. Don’t miss out—hit play and join the convo!

Is Work-Life Balance a Myth? The Truth Behind Juggling Career & Family

Can anyone really have it all? In this episode of Not Your Average Auntie’s, we uncover the real story behind the so-called “work-life balance” that everyone talks about but few seem to achieve. 😅
 
Are you constantly torn between career ambitions and family life? You’re not alone! Our hosts dive deep into their own experiences of juggling work, home, and everything in between. From battling guilt to finding creative solutions (hello, Instacart and Uber Eats), we’ll share the raw truths, funny moments, and real sacrifices that come with trying to balance it all.
 
💡 Plus, we explore practical tips for staying sane, whether it’s through self-care, asking for help, or learning to say ‘no.’ If you’ve ever wondered if work-life harmony is even possible, this episode is for you!
 
Don’t miss these relatable stories and tips to help you find your own version of balance—because let’s be real, it’s not one-size-fits-all. 🍷📲
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I Went to Court 8x Before Child Support Was Ordered! 😳 | Why Child Support Feels Like a Death Sentence

 
Our hosts share personal stories of navigating the child support system, from understanding their rights to facing the challenges of co-parenting. Whether you’re dealing with a child support case, preparing for a judge’s decision, or just want to know how to make these tough conversations more constructive, this episode has something for you.
 
We explore the emotional, financial, and legal hurdles faced by both custodial and non-custodial parents, while offering real-life insights into making the best decisions for the well-being of your children.

Managing Stress: Finding Balance and Self-Care

In this episode, we dive deep into the various ways stress impacts our lives and discuss practical methods to manage it. From the humorous to the serious, our hosts share personal anecdotes and strategies that have helped them cope with stress. We explore the benefits of music, cleaning, prayer, and exercise, and how these activities can serve as effective stress relievers. The conversation also touches on the importance of self-awareness and recognizing when you're reaching your breaking point, as well as the value of setting boundaries and choosing yourself first. Additionally, we discuss the significance of communication, both with ourselves and with others, and the need to teach compassion and emotional intelligence to the younger generation. Join us for an engaging and insightful discussion on managing stress and maintaining mental well-being.

How Money Affects Relationships (Marriage, Cohabitation, & Finances)

Does money really change the balance in relationships? How do couples handle financial stress?
Money can be a major factor in relationships, influencing everything from how couples manage their day-to-day expenses to the overall dynamic of the partnership.
In this episode, we dive deep into the impact of money on relationships, especially in marriage and cohabitation.
We explore how different couples set up their finances, from shared accounts to individual ones, and the dynamics that unfold when women are the primary breadwinners.
 Tune in as we share real-life experiences, perspectives, and practical advice on navigating finances in a healthy and equitable way!
 
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Finding Your Voice: Reflections and Regrets

Get ready for a deeply personal episode of ‘Not Your Average Aunties’ Pod as Ki, Jay, and Jo dive into the pivotal moments that define us and the lingering regrets from missed opportunities. This week, we’re talking about the power of finding your voice, taking risks, and embracing personal growth. From unfulfilled dreams to the courage to speak up, this raw and relatable conversation is packed with life lessons and wisdom. Whether you’re reflecting on your own missed chances or seeking inspiration for personal growth, pour yourself a glass of Sauvignon Blanc (or your beverage of choice) and join us for a discussion that might just empower you to live authentically and take that leap of faith you’ve been contemplating.

Understanding Boundaries: How Childhood Trauma Shapes Adult Relationships

How does your childhood shape your adult relationships?
In this episode, we dive into how your upbringing and past traumas affect everything—from splitting bills to setting boundaries.
We share real stories and practical tips to help you protect your peace, avoid being taken advantage of, and build healthier connections.
Tune in for a deep, relatable chat on why self-awareness and self-esteem are key to thriving in love and life.

From Creamy Crack to Natural Pride: A Journey of Embracing Natural Hair

Join us in this enlightening episode as we dive into the deeply personal and transformative journeys of going natural. Our hosts share their experiences with transitioning from relaxed hair, lovingly dubbed "creamy crack," to embracing their natural textures.Discover the challenges and triumphs of maintaining natural hair, dealing with societal beauty standards, and the empowering decision to ditch the wigs and weaves. Hear heartfelt anecdotes about the emotional and physical aspects of this journey, including the decision to start locks and the importance of self-acceptance.This episode is a celebration of natural beauty, self-love, and the freedom that comes with embracing your true self. Whether you're considering going natural or are already on your journey, this conversation offers valuable insights and inspiration.