Not Yo Average Aunties Podcast

Would You Still Go to College? Student Debt, Hustle Culture & Real-Life Alternatives

Is college still worth it in 2025? The Aunties break it down—student loans, sky-high tuition, and whether the traditional degree is still the golden ticket. From trade schools and certifications to on-the-job experience and side hustles, we talk about the real choices people are making today.
We get into the hard truths about education inequality, why so many immigrant professionals have to start over in the U.S., and how parents are navigating whether to push their kids toward college or let them carve their own path. Most of all, we talk about the hustle, curiosity, and continuous learning it takes to win in today’s world—degree or not.
If you’ve ever questioned if college was worth the money, or wondered what path you’d push your kids toward, this conversation is for you.

Don’t Let Stress Age You: Self-Care, Skincare & Sleep Secrets for Black Women Over 30

Stress can show up on your face, your body, and your energy but you don’t have to let it age you before your time. In this episode of Not Yo Avg Auntie’s Podcast, we get real about the everyday habits that speed up aging: constant stress, bitterness, helicopter parenting, poor sleep, skipping movement, and neglecting your skincare.
We break it down with practical, no-nonsense tips for women over 30 who want to age gracefully and unapologetically:
✨ Stay hydrated and keep your body moving
✨ Prioritize quality sleep (and finally ditch those late-night scrolling habits)
✨ Protect your skin daily with sunscreen + exfoliation
✨ Invest in real self-care therapy, coaching, and moments just for you
✨ Let go of bitterness and forgive so you can glow inside and out
It’s all about aging on your own terms, with confidence, joy, and a touch of Auntie wisdom.

“Don’t Call Me Grandma”: Redefining What It Means to Be a Modern Grandparent

Forget rocking chairs and knitting stereotypes, today’s grandparents are rewriting the rules! In this episode, the Aunties dive into what grandparenting really looks like in the modern age. From picking names that fit your vibe (Glam-ma, GiGi, Pop-Pop—anything but “Grandma” 👀) to setting boundaries, disciplining without overstepping, and keeping family traditions alive, we’re breaking it all down with humor and real talk.
Because being a grandparent isn’t about “slowing down”it’s about showing up, spoiling the babies, and handing them right back.

Be HONEST....Do you curse at your kids?

Hosts Jo, Ki, and Jay discuss whether they curse at their children, the difference between joking and hurtful language, and how parenting styles evolve as kids become adults. They reflect on boundaries, respect, authenticity, and avoiding helicopter parenting while keeping family relationships real and loving.

What If We Got It Wrong? Family Drama, Scandals & Growth Unfiltered

In this episode of Not Yo Avg Aunties Podcast, the hosts dive into recent viral moments that had everyone talking from explosive mother-daughter altercations to cheating scandals, privacy breaches, and messy celebrity encounters. 
But it doesn’t stop at hot takes. The aunties flip the script and reflect on the bigger picture: what if our quick judgments are all wrong? They explore how shifting perspectives, learning to listen instead of always advising, embracing aging with confidence, and giving yourself permission to evolve can change everything.
It’s funny, raw, and real part gossip, part growth, and a reminder that unlearning is just as powerful as learning.
Topics include:
Why family feuds go viral (and what we miss when we judge too fast)
Cheating scandals & the messy truth about privacy in relationships
Celebrity drama vs. real-life lessons
The beauty of aging unapologetically
Giving yourself grace to change your mind

What's the REAL Deal with Interracial Dating

In this episode of Not Your Average Auntie’s Podcast, Jo, Ki, and Jay dive into the real and raw truths about interracial dating. From personal experiences to cultural clashes, the aunties unpack everything why some people date outside their race, how projection and judgment show up in our communities, and the difference between preference and prejudice.
They also shine a light on the uncomfortable stuff: fetishization, cultural misunderstanding, and the way double standards often silence women especially Black women for making the same choices men do.
No finger-pointing, just honest conversations around love, identity, and how we can stay true to ourselves without tearing each other down. Whether you’re for it, against it, or somewhere in between, this episode is all about respect, empathy, and breaking out of boxes because love should never come with a side of shame.

Can Being Delusional Actually Help You Succeed?

Welcome to another engaging episode of the Not Your Average Auntie's podcast, where Jo, Ki, and Jay explore the intriguing concept of "delulu"—a blend of delusion and optimism. Dive into the discussion on whether being "delulu" is a new form of self-manifestation or just romanticized denial. The podcast traces the roots of this trend, from its origins in K-pop fan culture to its explosion during the pandemic, and asks the critical question: When does dreaming big become disconnecting from reality? Throughout this episode, the hosts challenge listeners to consider the fine line between ambition and unrealistic expectations. They share personal insights and anecdotes about the balance between speaking dreams into existence and the importance of taking action to realize them. Join Jo, Ki, and Jay as they navigate the fine line between being inspired to achieve more and understanding the practical steps needed to make dreams come true.

Dating Potential: Why Love Isn’t Always Enough in Your 40s and Beyond

In this episode of Not Your Average Auntie’s Podcast, Jo, Ki, and Jay keep it all the way real as they unpack the tricky topic of dating someone based on their “potential.” Is it noble… or just naïve?
Now that we’re grown-grown, settling for potential just ain’t cutting it. The aunties get honest about what it really takes to build healthy, fulfilling relationships in your 40s and beyond. From the importance of emotional reciprocity and personal growth to the red flags we too often overlook, they share hard-won wisdom and laugh-through-the-pain moments that will hit home.
They also break down the societal pressure to settle, challenge outdated gender roles, and remind you that your peace should never be up for negotiation.
Whether you’re single, in a situationship, or deep into a long-term love, this one’s for you. Tune in for raw stories, real advice, and a few hard truths about navigating love without losing yourself in the process.

Religion Ain’t One Size Fits All: Defining Faith for Ourselves

In this powerful episode of Not Yo Avg Aunties Podcast, Jo, Ki, and Jay peel back the layers on what it really means to be spiritual in today’s world especially as Black women navigating inherited beliefs, generational shifts, and cultural traditions.
They’re talking about everything from growing up in the church to questioning religious norms, reconnecting with ancestral practices, and building a relationship with a higher power that actually feels personal. Whether you’re still sitting in the pews, left the church long ago, or somewhere in between, this episode is for you.
The aunties also explore how colonization impacted African spirituality, how different faiths are adapting to modern challenges, and why cultural intelligence matters when we talk about religion and spirituality. It’s honest, healing, and hella relatable.
Tune in as they share their own spiritual journeys and challenge you to reflect on yours. Because at the end of the day, it’s not about religion. It’s about connection, purpose, and reclaiming your own spiritual path.

Black Girl Magic on Screen: Breaking Stereotypes & Building Legacies in Hollywood

This week on Not Yo Avg Aunties, Jo, Ki, and Jay dive into the world of film and television to explore how Black women have been portrayed and how we’re flipping the script.
From outdated stereotypes to bold, groundbreaking performances, the aunties reflect on the evolution of Black women in cinema, inspired by the First on the Call Sheet documentary. They give flowers to the icons Viola Davis, Regina King, Issa Rae and spotlight powerhouses like Ava DuVernay and Spike Lee who are creating space for authentic stories.
It’s a raw and real conversation about why accurate representation matters, how the industry still has a long way to go, and the importance of telling stories that reflect the full beauty, struggle, and brilliance of Black women.
Whether you’re a movie buff, a lover of culture, or just tired of seeing the same tired tropes, this episode is for you.