Not Yo Average Aunties Podcast

What If We Got It Wrong? Family Drama, Scandals & Growth Unfiltered

In this episode of Not Yo Avg Aunties Podcast, the hosts dive into recent viral moments that had everyone talking from explosive mother-daughter altercations to cheating scandals, privacy breaches, and messy celebrity encounters. 
But it doesn’t stop at hot takes. The aunties flip the script and reflect on the bigger picture: what if our quick judgments are all wrong? They explore how shifting perspectives, learning to listen instead of always advising, embracing aging with confidence, and giving yourself permission to evolve can change everything.
It’s funny, raw, and real part gossip, part growth, and a reminder that unlearning is just as powerful as learning.
Topics include:
Why family feuds go viral (and what we miss when we judge too fast)
Cheating scandals & the messy truth about privacy in relationships
Celebrity drama vs. real-life lessons
The beauty of aging unapologetically
Giving yourself grace to change your mind

What's the REAL Deal with Interracial Dating

In this episode of Not Your Average Auntie’s Podcast, Jo, Ki, and Jay dive into the real and raw truths about interracial dating. From personal experiences to cultural clashes, the aunties unpack everything why some people date outside their race, how projection and judgment show up in our communities, and the difference between preference and prejudice.
They also shine a light on the uncomfortable stuff: fetishization, cultural misunderstanding, and the way double standards often silence women especially Black women for making the same choices men do.
No finger-pointing, just honest conversations around love, identity, and how we can stay true to ourselves without tearing each other down. Whether you’re for it, against it, or somewhere in between, this episode is all about respect, empathy, and breaking out of boxes because love should never come with a side of shame.

Can Being Delusional Actually Help You Succeed?

Welcome to another engaging episode of the Not Your Average Auntie's podcast, where Jo, Ki, and Jay explore the intriguing concept of "delulu"—a blend of delusion and optimism. Dive into the discussion on whether being "delulu" is a new form of self-manifestation or just romanticized denial. The podcast traces the roots of this trend, from its origins in K-pop fan culture to its explosion during the pandemic, and asks the critical question: When does dreaming big become disconnecting from reality? Throughout this episode, the hosts challenge listeners to consider the fine line between ambition and unrealistic expectations. They share personal insights and anecdotes about the balance between speaking dreams into existence and the importance of taking action to realize them. Join Jo, Ki, and Jay as they navigate the fine line between being inspired to achieve more and understanding the practical steps needed to make dreams come true.

Dating Potential: Why Love Isn’t Always Enough in Your 40s and Beyond

In this episode of Not Your Average Auntie’s Podcast, Jo, Ki, and Jay keep it all the way real as they unpack the tricky topic of dating someone based on their “potential.” Is it noble… or just naïve?
Now that we’re grown-grown, settling for potential just ain’t cutting it. The aunties get honest about what it really takes to build healthy, fulfilling relationships in your 40s and beyond. From the importance of emotional reciprocity and personal growth to the red flags we too often overlook, they share hard-won wisdom and laugh-through-the-pain moments that will hit home.
They also break down the societal pressure to settle, challenge outdated gender roles, and remind you that your peace should never be up for negotiation.
Whether you’re single, in a situationship, or deep into a long-term love, this one’s for you. Tune in for raw stories, real advice, and a few hard truths about navigating love without losing yourself in the process.

Religion Ain’t One Size Fits All: Defining Faith for Ourselves

In this powerful episode of Not Yo Avg Aunties Podcast, Jo, Ki, and Jay peel back the layers on what it really means to be spiritual in today’s world especially as Black women navigating inherited beliefs, generational shifts, and cultural traditions.
They’re talking about everything from growing up in the church to questioning religious norms, reconnecting with ancestral practices, and building a relationship with a higher power that actually feels personal. Whether you’re still sitting in the pews, left the church long ago, or somewhere in between, this episode is for you.
The aunties also explore how colonization impacted African spirituality, how different faiths are adapting to modern challenges, and why cultural intelligence matters when we talk about religion and spirituality. It’s honest, healing, and hella relatable.
Tune in as they share their own spiritual journeys and challenge you to reflect on yours. Because at the end of the day, it’s not about religion. It’s about connection, purpose, and reclaiming your own spiritual path.

Black Girl Magic on Screen: Breaking Stereotypes & Building Legacies in Hollywood

This week on Not Yo Avg Aunties, Jo, Ki, and Jay dive into the world of film and television to explore how Black women have been portrayed and how we’re flipping the script.
From outdated stereotypes to bold, groundbreaking performances, the aunties reflect on the evolution of Black women in cinema, inspired by the First on the Call Sheet documentary. They give flowers to the icons Viola Davis, Regina King, Issa Rae and spotlight powerhouses like Ava DuVernay and Spike Lee who are creating space for authentic stories.
It’s a raw and real conversation about why accurate representation matters, how the industry still has a long way to go, and the importance of telling stories that reflect the full beauty, struggle, and brilliance of Black women.
Whether you’re a movie buff, a lover of culture, or just tired of seeing the same tired tropes, this episode is for you.

Generation wealth: Wealth Ain’t Enough, Are You Passing Down Wisdom Too?

In this powerful episode of Not Yo Avg Aunties, Jo, Ki, and Jay break down the real meaning of generational wealth and it’s deeper than just money and assets.
They unpack the responsibility that comes with building a legacy, from financial literacy and passing down knowledge, to deciding if your kids should earn what you leave behind or simply receive it. Should wealth come with conditions? What happens when you hand someone a bag they’re not ready to carry?
With personal stories, cultural insight, and some real talk about how money affects family dynamics, the aunties challenge you to think about how you’re setting your people up for the future. Are we teaching wealth or just handing it over and hoping for the best?
Tap in for laughs, lessons, and a few uncomfortable truths as they explore what it really means to pass the torch the right way.

Double Standards & Self-Sabotage: Are You Giving Others More Grace Than Yourself?

In this raw and real episode of Not Yo Avg Aunties, Jo, Ki, and Jay get into the messy truth about double standards, self-sabotage, and the ways we often hold others to expectations we don’t even meet ourselves.
Are you quicker to forgive a friend than you are to forgive yourself? Do you demand perfection from others but extend grace to your own slip-ups or is it the other way around? The aunties unpack personal stories, call themselves out, and drop gems about self-awareness, accountability, and emotional growth all with their signature blend of humor and heart.
This one will have you laughing, nodding, and checking yourself (in the best way). Tap in and join the convo on how to stop moving the goalposts and start holding space for real accountability.

Would You Date the Old You? A Raw Look at Our Relationship Habits

In this episode of Not Yo Avg Auntie’s Podcast, the aunties get real and ask a bold question: Would you date the past version of yourself? From messy dating patterns to questionable standards, Jo, Ki, and Jay unpack how much they’ve grown (or not) in love and relationships.
 
They reflect on how their younger selves showed up in relationships. Were we clingy? Too chill? Addicted to chaos? and what those old habits reveal about who they are today. This is a no-holds-barred convo on self-awareness, emotional maturity, and whether we’re truly ready for the love we say we want.
Expect laughter, accountability, and maybe a few hard truths as the aunties explore what it means to outgrow your old dating self and become the kind of partner you’d actually date. Whether you’re boo’d up or in your healing era, this episode will have you thinking twice about your past choices and maybe your current ones too.

Do you REALLY need to struggle first to be successful?

In this episode of Not Yo Avg Auntie’s Podcast, the aunties unpack our community’s complicated love affair with the struggle. Why do some folks feel like if they’re not grinding 24/7, they’re not worthy of success? Why do some parents think their kids have to suffer just because they did?
Jo, Ki, and Jay keep it real about how hustle culture, generational trauma, and “no days off” mindsets can trap us in cycles of burnout and struggle. From wearing stress like a badge of honor to confusing chaos with character-building, the aunties dig deep into why so many of us resist ease and how that mindset is costing us peace, health, and happiness.
They talk about:
The pressure to always be grinding
Struggle Olympics in families and relationships
Self-sabotage disguised as “being humble”
Learning to embrace ease without guilt
This episode is a word for anybody who grew up hearing “nothing comes easy” and is finally ready to believe that everything doesn’t have to be hard.