Not Yo Average Aunties Podcast

Makeup vs. Bare Face: What Really Defines Confidence?

On this episode of Not Yo Avg Aunties Podcast, Jo, Ki, and Jay get real about makeup, confidence, and beauty standards.
Are you more confident with a beat face or bare-faced?
The aunties dive into personal preferences, societal and partner expectations, and the pressure women feel to always “look put together.” From everyday makeup staples to the freedom of going natural, they explore how cosmetics can boost confidence or mask insecurity.
Tune in for an honest, funny, and spirited conversation about beauty, aging, and self-image, and then tell us: Do you feel more yourself with or without makeup?

Sinners, Sitcoms & Soul: Movies and Music That Stand the Test of Time

Join the Not Your Average Aunties as they debate movies and music that withstand generations — from new hits like Sinners to classics like Love Jones, Dirty Dancing, and timeless TV sitcoms. The hosts mix personal stories (including a memorable coffee-shop meltdown) with spirited takes on genres, artists, and why certain films and songs stay relevant.Expect nostalgic picks, cultural analysis, and lively conversation about how media shapes memory and identity across decades.

Parenting Without a Manual: Sacrifice, Social Media & Letting Kids Grow

Parenting doesn’t come with instructions, and the Aunties keep it honest about raising kids in today’s world. From the pressure we unknowingly put on our children, to learning how to step back and let them become their own people, it’s a journey full of lessons.
We get real about the differences in how we raised our older kids versus the younger ones, the sacrifices parents make that don’t always get acknowledged, and the sometimes messy work of reconciling with adult children.
Plus, we dive into how technology, social media, and outside noise make parenting even harder in this generation.
Whether you’re in the thick of parenting little ones, dealing with teens, or navigating adult children, this conversation is full of laughter, honesty, and the reminder that there’s no one “right” way to do it.

Culture, Controversy & Conversations That Matter

The Aunties are back, keeping it real and raw about the issues that hit home. From the ongoing fight for the CROWN Act and the bias Black women still face for wearing natural hair, to the messy world of politics, housing cuts, and detention scandals—we’re saying what others won’t.
And you know we’re not leaving out the tea: celebrity mess, cheating and forgiveness, luxury fashion knockoffs, and a tragic domestic violence case that shook us to the core.
It’s culture, it’s conversations, it’s the chaos of real life—with laughs, side-eye, and lessons along the way.

Wild Conspiracy Theories: Aliens, Celebs & Pigeon Spies: Time to question everything

Think pigeons are just birds? 👀 Or that aliens might already be here? In this hilarious and unfiltered episode, the Aunties go all in on the wildest conspiracy theories—from government secrets and vaccines to celebrity drama and why folks swear pigeons are spies.
With equal parts curiosity, side-eye, and laughter, we’re breaking down what’s believable, what’s just plain crazy, and why these theories keep pulling us in. If you love a good “what if” mixed with humor, this episode is for you.

Making Our Kings Feel Safe: Vulnerability, Boundaries, and Balance

Three hosts explore what it takes for Black women to make Black men feel emotionally safe—covering expectations of toughness, the need for vulnerability, and the importance of balanced support.They share poll results, personal stories, and practical strategies like emotional check-ins, mutual accountability, and male support networks to build healthier, more connected relationships.

Would You Still Go to College? Student Debt, Hustle Culture & Real-Life Alternatives

Is college still worth it in 2025? The Aunties break it down—student loans, sky-high tuition, and whether the traditional degree is still the golden ticket. From trade schools and certifications to on-the-job experience and side hustles, we talk about the real choices people are making today.
We get into the hard truths about education inequality, why so many immigrant professionals have to start over in the U.S., and how parents are navigating whether to push their kids toward college or let them carve their own path. Most of all, we talk about the hustle, curiosity, and continuous learning it takes to win in today’s world—degree or not.
If you’ve ever questioned if college was worth the money, or wondered what path you’d push your kids toward, this conversation is for you.

Don’t Let Stress Age You: Self-Care, Skincare & Sleep Secrets for Black Women Over 30

Stress can show up on your face, your body, and your energy but you don’t have to let it age you before your time. In this episode of Not Yo Avg Auntie’s Podcast, we get real about the everyday habits that speed up aging: constant stress, bitterness, helicopter parenting, poor sleep, skipping movement, and neglecting your skincare.
We break it down with practical, no-nonsense tips for women over 30 who want to age gracefully and unapologetically:
✨ Stay hydrated and keep your body moving
✨ Prioritize quality sleep (and finally ditch those late-night scrolling habits)
✨ Protect your skin daily with sunscreen + exfoliation
✨ Invest in real self-care therapy, coaching, and moments just for you
✨ Let go of bitterness and forgive so you can glow inside and out
It’s all about aging on your own terms, with confidence, joy, and a touch of Auntie wisdom.

“Don’t Call Me Grandma”: Redefining What It Means to Be a Modern Grandparent

Forget rocking chairs and knitting stereotypes, today’s grandparents are rewriting the rules! In this episode, the Aunties dive into what grandparenting really looks like in the modern age. From picking names that fit your vibe (Glam-ma, GiGi, Pop-Pop—anything but “Grandma” 👀) to setting boundaries, disciplining without overstepping, and keeping family traditions alive, we’re breaking it all down with humor and real talk.
Because being a grandparent isn’t about “slowing down”it’s about showing up, spoiling the babies, and handing them right back.

Be HONEST....Do you curse at your kids?

Hosts Jo, Ki, and Jay discuss whether they curse at their children, the difference between joking and hurtful language, and how parenting styles evolve as kids become adults. They reflect on boundaries, respect, authenticity, and avoiding helicopter parenting while keeping family relationships real and loving.