Not Yo Average Aunties Podcast

Empty Nest, Full Life: Finding Yourself Again

The NYAA crew is back with a real and relatable episode about the next big chapter: life after the kids leave the house. In this fun yet heartfelt conversation, we unpack the highs, lows, and in-betweens of transitioning to an empty nest. How do you rediscover you when the house gets quiet? What happens to your relationships? And where do you even start to fill the gaps with joy, purpose, and maybe a little bit of wine?
We’re diving into everything from letting your kids spread their wings (without losing your mind) to reigniting that marital flame and reclaiming hobbies you’ve put on hold for years. It’s not all serious, expect some laughs, a few “aha” moments, and stories that hit close to home.
Whether you’re just entering this stage or already living it, this episode will leave you feeling inspired, confident, and ready to embrace your newfound freedom. Tune in for tips, real talk, and a reminder that empty nesting doesn’t have to feel empty, it can be the most exciting chapter yet!

Unraveling the Stars: Astrology and Dating

Welcome back to the Not Your Average Aunties Podcast! In this episode, we dive into the fascinating world of astrology and its connection to dating and relationships. Joining us is our special guest, Caitlin, who brings her passion and insights on zodiac signs and how they shape our personal interactions.
From Scorpio’s unmatched intensity to Capricorn’s layered complexity, we break down the traits associated with different signs and how they play out in relationships. The conversation takes an authentic turn as we explore personal stories, common stereotypes, and how factors like upbringing and birth charts add even more depth to the zodiac puzzle.
This isn’t your typical astrology talk, we’re bringing humor, honesty, and a little controversy as we dish on zodiac compatibility. Whether you’re an astrology fanatic or side eye the whole concept, this episode will leave you entertained, intrigued, and maybe even rethinking what the stars have in store for your love life.

Our Best Books to Read: Favorite Genres, Must-Reads, and Literary Adventures

In this episode of Not Yo Avg Aunties Podcast, we’re sharing our ultimate list of books to read and diving into the stories and authors that shaped our love for reading. From timeless favorites like Standing at the Scratch Line and The Kite Runner to iconic authors like Guy Johnson and Sister Souljah, we’re talking about the titles that left a lasting impression.
We’ll also explore how technology and AI are transforming the reading experience, debate the magic of physical books versus digital formats, and share our unfiltered thoughts on book-to-movie adaptations.
Whether you’re into suspense, historical fiction, or inspiring autobiographies, we’ve got recommendations to spark your literary journey. Tune in, grab your favorite drink, and join us for a lively discussion on all things books and beyond!

Big Dreams & Bold Destinations: Vacation Goals Unlocked

Pack your bags, mentally, at least! In this episode of Not Yo Avg Aunties Podcast, Kira, Jay, and Jo spill all about their dream vacation destinations. From the cultural wonders of Japan and Egypt to the serene beaches of Hawaii, the aunties break down what makes a getaway unforgettable.
Pour a glass of Sauvignon Blanc and join the conversation as they swap travel stories, share their must-visit spots, and dive into the importance of embracing local cultures and cuisines. Whether you’re a thrill-seeker, a beach bum, or someone who loves a good girl’s trip, there’s something here for you.
They also explore the joy of domestic travel, the magic of impromptu road trips, and the thrill of international adventures. As always, the aunties bring a mix of humor and inspiration to the table, encouraging you to dream big, travel far, and make those vacation goals a reality!

Knowing Yourself, Setting Boundaries, and Exploring Life by 40

In this episode of Not Yo Avg Aunties Podcast, we’re talking all about leveling up as you approach your 40s. From figuring out what you truly like and dislike to mastering the art of travel and setting those all-important boundaries, this conversation is packed with gems for self-discovery and personal growth.
We also dive into creating your signature look, embracing seasonal traditions, and even share some laughs over our favorite wines. As always, we sprinkle in stories, insights, and tips on evolving with age, making life more enjoyable, and using technology to your advantage.
Grab your glass (or your notebook) and join us for this fun and inspiring episode all about embracing who you are and living life on your terms!

Age-Gap Dating: Breaking Down Cougars, Sugar Daddies, and Double Standards

In this episode of Not Yo Avg Aunties Podcast, we dive headfirst into the spicy world of age-gap relationships. Why is it applauded when men date younger women but side-eyed when women date younger men? We’re breaking down the double standards, sharing our unfiltered takes, and even spilling a few personal stories.
From the ‘cougar’ label to the ‘sugar daddy’ dynamic, we’re exploring the cultural stigmas, societal norms, and personal choices that shape these relationships. Whether it’s the history behind these dynamics or how they play out in today’s dating scene, nothing is off the table.
Join us as we dish out laughs, hard truths, and some much-needed perspective, all while emphasizing the importance of mutual respect, understanding, and finding happiness—no matter the age difference. Tune in for a lively, thought-provoking conversation that’ll have you rethinking everything you thought you knew about love and age gaps!

"How much is TOO MUCH to Share: in Relationships, at work, with Friends and Family"

Talking about money in the family can get awkward, but let’s be real—it’s necessary. In this episode of Not Your Average Aunties, we’re breaking down the importance of being transparent about household expenses. From mortgage to heating bills, we’re calling out the need for open conversations so family members (even the non-contributors) understand what it really takes to keep the lights on.
But we’re not stopping there. We also dive into the bigger question: how much is too much to share? Whether it’s personal stories, struggles, or life experiences, we debate if being open helps others prepare for life’s challenges or just adds stress.
👉 When should you open up to your kids or friends?
👉 Does sharing teach them responsibility, or make you feel too vulnerable?
As always, we’re keeping it honest, relatable, and just a little messy—because adulting ain’t cheap, and the fine line of sharing is trickier than you think.
Drop your thoughts in the comments: Do you believe in sharing your financial realities with family, or do some things need to stay private? Let’s talk about it!
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Breaking Free: Why Some Exes Just Can’t Move On

Welcome to another hilarious yet heartfelt episode of Not Your Average Auntie’s Podcast! This time, we’re diving into the tangled web of relationships, breakups, and those exes who just can’t seem to let go.
 
Why do some exes cling to your life like old receipts in your purse? Ego, entitlement, and a sprinkle of audacity, that’s why. 😏 We unpack how child support, co-parenting, and shared history make it even messier. And let’s not forget the emotional gymnastics of dealing with an ex trying to control your current relationships.
From societal double standards (hello, moms can date too!) to the family ties that keep some exes lingering, we’re tackling it all with our signature blend of wit and real talk. This episode is packed with relatable stories, practical advice, and the laughs you need to reclaim your peace.
If you’ve ever dealt with the chaos of breakups, co-parenting drama, or trying to hold it together while an ex won’t let go, this episode is for you. We’re talking about the real-life struggles of setting boundaries, finding your peace, and reclaiming your space—because sometimes, moving on is easier said than done.
Tune in for the insight, stay for the laughs—because moving on shouldn’t have to be this complicated… but it is.

Alpha Women & Masculine Energy: Balancing Power in Relationships & the Workplace

In this episode of Not Yo Avg Aunties Podcast, the Aunties dive into the complexities of women balancing masculine energy in their personal and professional lives. With raw honesty and relatable insights, we explore how societal expectations shape the roles women play and how being strong doesn’t mean abandoning femininity.
The conversation delves into navigating leadership as Alpha Women in the workplace, managing perceptions, and coping with the pressures of representing more than just oneself. We also tackle the dynamics of relationships, examining power, trust, and support systems with alpha males and partners who value collaboration over competition.
Through real-life experiences and uplifting anecdotes, the Aunties challenge stereotypes, advocate for self-empowerment, and envision environments where women can thrive authentically. Tune in for an inspiring discussion on breaking barriers and redefining what strength looks like in today’s world.
 
 

Supporting Black Creators: Accountability in Black Cinema & TV

In this thought-provoking episode, the Aunties explore the delicate balance of supporting Black creators in film and television while holding them accountable for their work. Tackling issues like pay equity, equal pay, and the challenges of representation in Black cinema and Black TV, they emphasize the importance of constructive critique to help creators grow and succeed in the competitive entertainment industry.
Using examples like Tyler Perry and Taylor Swift, the Aunties dive into the power of fan culture, showcasing how passionate audiences can uplift their idols while encouraging accountability. They debate whether social media plays a unique role in shaping the relationship between celebrities and their fans, especially in underrepresented communities.
With personal anecdotes and candid insights, the Aunties navigate the complexities of being both supportive and critical fans. Tune in to hear their perspectives on the impact of viewership, the responsibilities of fans, and the future of Black representation in the arts.