Not Yo Average Aunties Podcast
Welcome to Not Yo Avg Aunties Podcast, where we redefine what it means to age with style and humor! Join three fabulous friends as we navigate the ups and downs of life, love, and everything in between. Tune in for real talk, relatable stories, and a whole lot of laughs. Let’s embrace aging our way – with grace, fun, and a touch of sass!

Not Yo Average Aunties Podcast!
Looking for a safe space to laugh, love, learn, and grow? You’ve come to the right place! We’re three longtime friends with stories to tell and laughs to share.
Each week, we dive into everything that matters to us women – from dating, marriage, and finances to divorce, motherhood, mindset, and everything in between.
We’re all about increasing confidence within ourselves and lifting each other up.
We’re here to spill the tea on life – from dating disasters to mom moments. We may be getting older, but we've got a youthful spirit and we’re reinventing what aging looks like. You can't escape it, but we're doing it our way!
We share our stories, sprinkle in some humor, and keep it real because, honestly, what’s life without a good laugh?
Tune in for your weekly dose of laughter, inspiration, and those straight-up, no-nonsense talks you crave.
Grab a seat, it’s about to get real (and really funny)! Join us on this journey – let’s laugh, learn, and grow together!
Episodes

6 days ago
6 days ago
In this episode of Not Your Average Auntie, the hosts get real about friendship, support, and what it actually looks like when you step out and try something new.
They unpack the different forms of support: emotional, financial, promotional, spiritual and why unmet expectations can lead to disappointment, resentment, and distance. The conversation dives into outgrowing friendships, setting boundaries without guilt, prioritizing self-care, and recognizing who truly has your back versus who’s only comfortable with the old version of you.
Through candid stories and honest reflection, this episode explores why friendships have layers, why some relationships change with growth, and how to accept that evolution without bitterness. If you’ve ever questioned who’s really in your corner, this one’s for you.

Tuesday Jan 06, 2026
Vision Boards, Boundaries & Getting Sh*t Done: The Aunties’ Real Plan for 2026
Tuesday Jan 06, 2026
Tuesday Jan 06, 2026
In this episode of Not Your Average Aunties, the hosts break down how they’re really preparing for 2026 no manifestation cosplay, just intention, boundaries, and execution.
The Aunties talk vision boards (physical vs. digital), reviewing the wins and unfinished business from the past year, habits that have to go, and why chosen relationships matter more than ever. They get honest about protecting time, setting boundaries, staying disciplined, and doing the uncomfortable work required to actually move forward.
This episode is for anyone who’s tired of talking about goals and ready to execute. If you’re planning for 2026, reassessing your priorities, or figuring out how to move differently in your next chapter this conversation is for you.
✨ Topics include: vision boards, goal setting, boundaries, discipline, personal growth, intentional living, and planning for the new year.

Tuesday Dec 30, 2025
NYAA Wrapped: Our Biggest Laughs, Lessons & WTF Moments of 2025
Tuesday Dec 30, 2025
Tuesday Dec 30, 2025
Join the Not Yo Average Aunties Podcast for our 2025 rewind — NYAA style. Think of this episode as our version of Spotify Wrapped, where we break down the moments you loved, quoted, reposted, and debated all year long.
From hilarious dating stories and first-date fails to real conversations about relationships, astrology, beauty, culture, money, and life over 40, we revisit the clips and conversations that had the auntie community laughing, nodding, and saying “this is so me.”
This episode is funny, reflective, and unapologetically honest — a celebration of growth, chaos, and everything in between.
✨ If you’ve been rocking with NYAA all year, this one’s for you.
🎧 If you’re new, this is the perfect place to start.
Topics include:
dating over 40, relationship talk, auntie humor, pop culture moments, self-reflection, life lessons, and the real conversations women are having in 2025.

Tuesday Dec 23, 2025
Puff, Prenups & Power: Celebrity Scandals, Divorce Talk & Our Real 2025 Recap
Tuesday Dec 23, 2025
Tuesday Dec 23, 2025
The Aunties are closing out 2025 with no filters and no fluff.
In this candid year-end recap, the Not Your Average Aunties unpack the biggest moments that shaped the culture from the Puff Daddy conviction and documentary fallout, to celebrity divorces, prenup debates, power dynamics in relationships, and how money continues to change love, marriage, and independence.
They also get real about the personal side of 2025: burnout, slowing down, redefining work-life balance, and what it actually means to protect your peace in midlife.
The conversation touches on AI, politics, cultural shifts, and how all of it is influencing the way women think about the future.
The Aunties wrap it up by sharing their intentions for 2026 and inviting listeners to drop their own one-sentence 2025 recap in the comments.
If you’re into:
celebrity scandals & documentaries
relationship power dynamics
prenups, divorce & financial independence

Tuesday Dec 16, 2025
Tuesday Dec 16, 2025
Join the Not Yo Average Aunties (NYAA) for a real, unfiltered conversation about how the holidays change as you get older. From barely decorating and grown kids running the show, to Secret Santa swaps, re-gifting with zero shame, skipping Black Friday chaos, and navigating holiday spending in today’s economy the Aunties say what everybody’s thinking.
This episode breaks down modern holiday traditions, family dynamics, and financial boundaries, plus how streaming, inflation, and shifting priorities have completely changed the season. If you’re redefining what the holidays look like after 40 emotionally, financially, and culturally, this one’s for you.
Real talk. No pressure. Just the holidays… the Auntie way.

Tuesday Dec 09, 2025
TikTok Hits vs. Real R&B: Are We Losing the Art of Music?
Tuesday Dec 09, 2025
Tuesday Dec 09, 2025
On this episode of Not Yo Avg Auntie’s Podcast, the aunties dive into Gen Z music vs. our era of real R&B, storytelling, and soul. From mumble rap, viral TikTok hooks, and recycled samples to the timeless vibes of ’80s and ’90s R&B, we’re breaking down why today’s songs have us confused, laughing, and low-key dancing anyway.
We get into: 🎵 The difference between lyrics you feel vs. beats made for TikTok 🎤 Why every song sounds sampled… and whether we’re here for it 🔥 The Cardi B vs. Nicki Minaj tension and how it shapes female rap today 👀 The new artists we’re watching — plus the throwbacks that instantly take us back 😂
Personal auntie favorites, guilty-pleasure tracks, and music hot takes If you grew up on Mary J., Jodeci, SWV, 112, Biggie, Tupac, Missy, Aaliyah, and now you’re trying to understand why Gen Z loves a two-bar chorus… this episode is for you.

Tuesday Dec 02, 2025
Scammers Got Smarter: AI Calls, Fake Banks & QR Code Schemes Exposed
Tuesday Dec 02, 2025
Tuesday Dec 02, 2025
In this episode of Not Yo Avg Aunties Podcast, Jo, Ki and Jay expose how scammers have upgraded — and why so many people (young, old, and “should know better”) are still falling for it.
They break down the newest scam trends:
AI-generated voice calls pretending to be your bank
Texts and emails that look exactly like legit institutions
Fake invoices and fake storefronts (yes, even those “too good to be true” Wayfair ads 👀)
Malicious QR codes at parking meters, restaurants, and stores
Social-media hustle pages and “coaching courses” that are really upsells in disguise
The Aunties share personal stories — from spoofed bank calls to fraudulent parking payments — and explain why scammers target people who are lonely, stressed, or just moving too fast.
They also give real, practical Auntie-approved tips to keep you and your money safe:
Never trust unsolicited calls asking you to “verify” anything
Don’t click random links — especially QR codes in public
Use passkeys & 2FA instead of passwords
Check your receipts, subscriptions, and bank statements
Report scams immediately so others don’t get caught

Tuesday Nov 25, 2025
Turkey, Tea & Thanksgiving Truths | Not Yo Avg Aunties Holiday Special
Tuesday Nov 25, 2025
Tuesday Nov 25, 2025
In this Thanksgiving episode of Not Yo Avg Aunties Podcast, Jo, Ki and Jay dive into the real holiday experience, the food, the family, the foolishness, and the feelings. They break down the must-have dishes (turkey wings, mac and cheese, collard greens, stuffing, sweet potato pie) and call out the repeat offenders (dry turkey, dry mac, green bean casserole, chitlins, and those questionable “experimental” recipes 😩). The Aunties share hilarious stories about hosting, leftovers, kids who don’t help, and what happens when somebody brings the wrong dish. They also touch on Black Friday traditions, family dynamics, and the pressure of holiday expectations. The episode wraps with a heartfelt moment on gratitude, growth, and support for anyone spending the holidays alone, missing loved ones, or redefining what Thanksgiving looks like this year.

Tuesday Nov 18, 2025
Tuesday Nov 18, 2025
In this episode of Not Yo Avg Aunties Podcast, the Aunties ask the real question: Do we even believe in love anymore?
They unpack how social media, money, and modern dating have shifted what people expect from relationships — and whether love is still about connection or convenience.

Tuesday Nov 11, 2025
Tuesday Nov 11, 2025
Do you “treat people how you want to be treated,” or do you “give what you get”?
This week, the Aunties debate how to handle disrespect while protecting your peace.
Join Jo, Ki and Jay as they talk boundaries, revenge, karma, forgiveness, and how growth shifts your reactions as you evolve.
Because sometimes being the bigger person doesn’t mean staying silent, it means knowing what’s worth your energy.







